On the floor of her sister Mary Cassel's home, Betty straightens her hair while babysitting Mary's children on Aug. 16, 2017, in Flint. "Graduating high school has opened my eyes," Betty said. "Now I am doing everything alone, well not alone but on my own. Usually, I would have people to ask questions to, my family and friends, I had them to fall back on but now I am doing things on my own. I am adapting, it is not going to happen overnight."

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"Flint has its flaws, the school systems, the poverty rate and murders are at an all-time high," Betty said. "You have to get through the mess and then you can see that there are some things that you can get from Flint that you can't find anywhere else."

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Against all odds, Flint teen perseveres for a better future


With Flint written on her back


Sitting on the floor gazing into an oversized, smudged mirror resting against the wall, Betty Davis applies makeup as her nieces and nephews run around the house completing their chores.


The large room features a speaker system pointing out the window, a television playing Sponge Bob to no one in particular and bedding piled into a corner creating a makeshift couch. Bar stools from the dining area are slid onto the soiled carpet as Aniyla Green, 4, and Byron Green, 6, Betty's sister's children, fight over the broom. Betty settles the fight and sprinkles carpet deodorizer powder across the floor as she slams off the television.


Today, Betty was getting her senior photos taken, three months after her graduation. For her, this was normal, doing things her own way, out of order but getting them done. 

"I am going through a bunch of stuff right now, but I am going to get through it like I always do," said the 18-year-old Betty as she clipped extensions into her hair.


Flint Northwestern graduate, Betty Davis, 18, celebrates after receiving her diploma alongside more than 235 other graduates from Flint Community Schools at the annual joint commencement ceremony on Tuesday, June 6, 2017, at Dort Federal Event Center in Flint. More than three months later, she is struggling to make her dream become a reality. To leave her challenging childhood behind, join the military, move to Texas and later attend college to study criminal justice. "A lot of my classmates are all going through the same thing as me this summer. They keep telling me the same things that I have been thinking, 'ah man this is hard, I want to go back to high school, I want to try to start over and make it better for myself,'" Betty said.

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Betty chops tomatoes for dinner alongside her cousins as they snack on bananas in their home on the 2000 block of Cadillac Street in Flint on July 2. 

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As told by Betty and her father, L.C. Davis, 62, and mother, Laura Davis, Betty was born a crack baby. Her mother has struggled with drug addiction. L.C. favored drink. Betty grew up in and out of foster care due to the unsafe environment of her home. 


"It is hard for me to remember that time, it is fuzzy for me," said L.C. “I believe they were put in foster care in 2002 before my youngest son was born. I don't struggle with alcoholism. I drank heavily in my younger days, when my kids were taken away. I went through parenting classes and treatment centers. I was the most stable parent there was for them. I was doing everything I could to get my kids back, but you know, I didn't have a stable home for them. The things the agency wants you to have," he continued. "I left Flint about three years ago because of the domestic violence."


Betty recalls being told at a young age she would never graduate high school. But she can proudly say she proved them all wrong.


On June 6, 2017, she walked across a scaffold stage dressed in a bright-yellow gown with white flowers glued to her cap. Betty and 234 other graduates from Flint Community Schools celebrated their commencement that day, all proving they are not part of a statistic.


"I feel like I have accomplished what people didn't think I could," said Betty. "It feels so good to me because I know now I can do anything. If I can overcome my past and everything I have been thought, then being an adult shouldn't be as hard. It is going to be very challenging but I know am going to eventually get through it, like I do everything else. I am very happy. I really want to go back to graduation day, like it felt so good to say I made it." 

Sitting in a chair outside her home, Mary Cassel, 33, watches her children play basketball in the street as Betty Davis drinks water from a gallon jug on Aug. 15, 2017 in Flint. Cassel shares the home with her mother Laura Daivs, 53, and sister Betty. "I was five when I moved to Flint," Betty said. "Growing up here was hard because we didn't have anything to come to when we moved from Milwaukee in 2002. It was a fresh start. I was in and out of foster care my whole life. I had to hold up a certain type of profile when I got to school but I knew what I was going home to. It was difficult for me because I had to play so many different roles."

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Betty teaches her co-ed dance team, Perfect Devine, a move to the song "The Water Dance," by Chris Porter featuring Pitbull at a park near downtown Flint on the corner of West Fifth Street and Church Street.

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Betty Davis, 18, lifts up her sweatshirt for Staff Sgt. Keith Palka to measure her waist, hips, and neck. Standing her tallest at 5 feet, 5 inches and weighing 204 pounds, Betty did not meet the physical requirements to join the military. She needs to lose 40 pounds based on the Army body fat calculator to be at 30% body fat. "The military is my way of getting out of Flint. I can't just up and leave. Outside of Flint, I just want to explore life without family, without being comfortable and the Army is kind of my starting point," Betty said.

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Claude Monet-Wilson, 20, trains with Betty Davis, 18, as she works out to drop weight to join the Army on the track at Flint Northwestern High School on July 3, 2017, on the city's north side. Claude is in the National Guard and has been Betty's best friend since early in high school. "I already dropped 10 pounds," said Betty, one month into training. "I am on my way. I am doing the military diet as I speak.

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Holding a high school diploma opens doors but it does not provide a clear map of how to succeed.


Betty graduated from Flint Northwestern High School with a precise plan. Join the Army, move to Texas, attend Wiley College to study criminal justice.


"(Joining the military) is my way of getting out. Getting out of Flint, I can't just up and leave. Outside of Flint, I just want to explore life without family, without being comfortable, and the Army is kind of my starting point," said Betty.


Betty’s plans changed when she met with the recruiting officer, Staff Sgt. Keith Palka. She busted tape, as the army calls it, when she weighed in at 204 pounds and a height of 5 feet 5 inches. The Army standards are 30 percent body fat, meaning she would have to lose over 40 pounds before she could join according to Staff Sgt. Palka.


She instantly enlisted her best friend and boyfriend Claude Monet-Wilson, 20, who was serving in the National Guard, to help her drop the weight.


In one month, Betty dropped 10 pounds but still has a way to go - making it evident her plans were going to have to change. 

Betty, center, is surrounded by her mother, siblings, cousins and nieces and nephews for a family photo. Siblings were visiting Flint from Milwaukee for the Fourth of July. "I can't stand my family sometimes. I love them but I can't stand them. There are a lot of us. It is hard because you never know what to expect when we all meet up because they all have their crazy parts," Betty said. She is the youngest girl out of twelve children. Her mother and father have six children together and each had three before their marriage.

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Lea'Monai Cassel, Betty's niece, grabs at the dog tags wrapped around her neck on June 2, 2017, as her family gathers in the front yard in Flint. Betty wears her the dog tags of Claude Monet-Wilson, her best friend who became her boyfriend.

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Betty reacts as she learns she scored a 29 on her practice test but did not pass the physical requirements needed to sign up for the Flint Michigan National Guard recruiters office on July 11, 2017.

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New plan: Stick it out in Flint.


On her first attempt, Betty was not admitted to Olivet College, a private liberal arts college 87 miles southwest of Flint. She wrote an appeals letter and they reversed their decision. She is looking for a job after quitting her last job when she said an employee would not stop making advances on her. She is homeless, jobless and spending her days babysitting her sister's children.


"Graduating high school opened my eyes to that fact that, now I am doing everything alone, well not alone but on my own. Usually, I would have people to ask, my family being one of them, my friends, I had them to fall back on, but now I am doing things on my own to get a better outcome moving away. I am adapting, it is not going to happen overnight. I planned to be gone by the end of summer but I am still here," said Betty on the front porch of her sister's house, sitting in a white plastic lawn chair drinking from a gallon jug of water.


From the time Betty was a freshman in April 2014, the Flint water crisis was taking shape. Flint was again making national news.


"I don't really like Flint, I am not going to lie, I really don't like Flint. If it was my choice I wouldn't be here. But, Flint does have potential, I am proud to wear Flint on my back because I also have a lot of potential myself that I would like to share with the world. But, because I am labeled as a Flint girl it is hard for people to see the potential in us and in Flint at all. I kind of like wearing the Flint name but then again sometimes I am like 'come on, y'all, we can we can do better.’ We are giving them the reason to say what they say about Flint."

Betty laughs surrounded by friends and family as music comes blaring out of the speakers set up at her graduation party in a park in downtown Flint.

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"I don't have a normal relationship with my mom. My mother put me through so much," said Betty Davis. She was born a crack baby. Her mother, Laura Davis, 53, pictured holding her granddaughter, Lea'Monai Cassel, struggled with drug addiction. "I don't know if she even knows half the stuff I had to do because of her ... (to get the) lights and water turned back on in our house or to put food in the house. I had to do things to make sure my little brothers were living the proper way," Betty said.

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Labels Betty has noticed being placed on Flint are people being young and pregnant, prostitutes, being in jail, high school dropouts and not being able to graduate college or afford it.


"Because of my mother's actions, we don't have a typical mother-daughter relationship. I have to keep my distance. Our relationship is more like a foster mother,” Betty said. “I don't get too close to a foster mother, but she does show points where she cares but I wouldn't trust her with anything. It is all because of her, and the fact that she can't apologize and own up to what she did is why we will forever be the way we are now. I told myself when I left here I am done with her.”


Betty’s mother has 12 children, and she is the youngest of the dozen. Her mother and father have six children together and each had three before they were together.


"Being the youngest girl is hard, everybody is not ready for me to grow up," said Betty. Her mother, Laura Davis, responded, "They aren't really sure that you are ready for what this world has to offer."


Betty took a moment to think and then told her mother, "I know there is a lot of stuff I could learn from them but they had 18 years, if they could not invest in me during those years, then I'm going have to figure it out on my own," said Betty. "If that means I have to be hit with everything then I will get hit with everything and I don't expect for my family to be there to pick me up, I gotta pick myself up and dust myself off. I love my family dearly and I would do anything for them but I have a certain tolerance for them."

"I wanted to be the President of the United States as a kid," Betty said as she looks at photos of her as a child on Aug. 25. "I swear I did. When I saw Obama win, I was in fourth grade and we were watching the news in class. And I was like, 'Oh my god! If he can do it, then I can do it.' So then I was going around like, 'Yeah, I am going to be the President.' Then I just thought about it and I was like, 'I'm not going to be the President, I don't like taking control all the time.'" As Betty reached seventh grade, she changed her mind to becoming a lawyer, which led to her path to study criminology and forensic psychology.

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Betty Davis, 18, is still struggling to find the right path for her after high school at Flint Northwestern. "I don't want to become just another statistic of Flint," Betty said.

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Today, Betty’s life is still not set in stone. Her plans change periodically but always keep the same tone. She currently works at Art Van Furniture and is set to move into her own apartment mid-December. Then, she starts classes at Olivet College on campus and online starting in January 2018.
Her dreams of joining the military are still at the top of her list and one day she hopes to make them come true.

"I feel blessed that I have had all the struggles that I had growing up,” said Betty on a late September day. "They taught me to persevere.”






















Story and photos by Shannon Millard
The Flint Journal/MLive.com
November 25, 2017
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